“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.” —Albert Einstein.
Hello my friends!
Worry is a form of thinking. How we worry can either be constructive or destructive. Worrying is feeling uneasy or being overly concerned about a situation or problem. With excessive worrying, your mind and body go into overdrive as you constantly focus on “what might happen.” Sometimes, a little worry or anxiety is helpful. It can help you get ready for an upcoming situation. But excessive worry or ongoing fear or anxiety is harmful when it becomes so irrational that you can’t focus on reality or think clearly.
Chronic worry and emotional stress can trigger a host of health problems. The fight or flight response causes the body’s sympathetic nervous system to release stress hormones such as cortisol. These hormones can cause physical reactions such as:
Inability to concentrate
Shortness of breath.
There are 19 steps you can do to stop the pattern of excess worry and live a happier life.
1.Identify your stress situations and what you’re worried about.
2. Make time for Faith. “ The simplicity of our life of contemplation makes us see the face of God in everything, everyone, and everywhere, all the time”. Mother Teresa.
3. Challenge Your Beliefs About Worry.
What is the evidence that the thought is true? That it’s not true?
Is there a more positive, realistic way of looking at the situation?
What’s the probability that what I’m scared of will actually happen? If the probability is low, what are some more likely outcomes?
Is the thought helpful? How will worrying about it help me and how will it hurt me?
What would I say to a friend who had this worry?
4. Practice Realistic Thinking.
5. Write down your worries.
6. Setting aside a certain amount of time (10-15 minutes) each day to consider worries and avoiding thinking about them at other times in the day.
7. Make your worries boring. If there is a specific worry that bothers you often, you can try to make it boring, so your brain will return to it less often. Do this by repeating it in your head again and again for several minutes.
8. Interrupt negative thought loops and replace them with positive ones.
9. Think of how to solve the problem. Knowing what to do if a dreaded event does occur can help reduce the anxiety that develops from an imagined scenario.
10. Think about social influences. Emotions can be contagious. If you spend a lot of time with other worriers, or people who make you anxious, you may want to reconsider how much time you are spending with those people.
11. Accept the Things You Cannot Change.
12. Embrace uncertainty.
13. Try not to isolate yourself. Develop deep relations.
14. Get moving.
15. Take a yoga or tai chi class.
16. Try deep breathing.
18. Stay focused on the present.
19. Practice progressive muscle relaxation.
And always remember:
“You’re only here for a short visit. Don’t hurry, don’t worry. And be sure to smell the flowers along the way.” —Walter Hagen.